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Category: Negative Thought Patterns

Posted on 7th Jun 20258th Jun 2025

Our Shoulds – The Thorns in Our Side

“The realisation of any present shortcomings is unbearable for anybody harassed by dictatorial shoulds,” Karen Horney, Neurosis and Human Growth “You mustn’t put chewing gum in your sister’s hair.”  I remember saying that to my little son, along with a series of explanations why his sister’s hair was not the best place to land that …

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Posted on 10th May 20249th Apr 2025

Fighting Our Thoughts’ Windmills   

One thing we love about electronic devices is the certainty that, by pressing a single button, what we want is being done, from making a cup of coffee to opening our Instagram account or getting to the 10th floor of a building in a lift.  What if there was such a thing as a Mind …

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Posted on 17th Nov 20239th Apr 2025

Playing the Game of Marriage

Francis and Margot Macomber seem to be a happy couple: young, good-looking, famous, rich, envied and admired. Except they’re not. Their marriage is riddled with crises (he drinks, she has affairs), yet they remain stuck with each other for 11 years as they have “a sound basis of union. Margot was too beautiful for Macomber …

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Posted on 6th Nov 20225th Jan 2024

Limiting Beliefs – Under the Sign of Appearance

Cast Away has Chuck as the main character who, surviving a plane crash, ends up on a deserted island. Having accidentally cut his hand, Chuck hits a volleyball and notices that the handprint resembles a human face. He touches it up and thus, the volleyball becomes his inseparable friend, Wilson, whom he talks to and …

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Posted on 6th Nov 20229th Apr 2025

The Labyrinth of Loneliness

Late in the evening, a woman sits at a table in an empty restaurant, staring into her cup of coffee. Behind her is a window as large as a wall through which one sees nothing of the city’s life. This black rectangle intensely reflects two rows of ceiling lamps. Edward Hopper’s painting “Automat” (1927) conveys …

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